How to Impress a Boy – Show who you are

There can be thousands of people who appreciate you and like you, but the one whom you like, haven’t even noticed you yet. In that case, what will any girl do?

Well, the answer is quite simple. She will do a lot of brainstorming on how to impress a boy and use try all the tricks & tactics in the world to get him. This may sound cool, but trust me it never works. Even after you double you make ups, wear sexy apparels and keep trying to be in notice, the probability that he will like you is quite less.

You know why? Because this isn’t the correct answer of the question, how to impress a boy ! The correct answer is to show who you are and what have you got.

Well, let us discuss that thoroughly. It is a general fact that even if any girl is jack of all trades, she will try to use skills she isn’t aware of, rather than using the ones, she is good at, which leads her to nowhere. Why this? Why do we always find things we don’t know more impressive?

You don’t agree with me? Let me give you an example. When I was in high school, I had a friend, Alyssa.  She was a wonderful painter. She had been honoured with several inter-school level trophies and certificates. But when it came to impress a guy next door, she started consulting relationship experts. She was quite confused about how to impress a boy.

I was the one, who always suggested her to use her painting skills to impress that boy, but she never cared and kept trying different things that include salsa, athletics, new hair style, make over and so on. I knew that none of this was going to work and that is exactly what happened. And then, when she was tired of all the efforts, she agreed to what I said.

I suggested her to make a painting for that boy and gift him on his birthday. She was so not confident while doing this, yet she did it on my words. And guess what? The boy liked it. He liked it so much that he asked her for a date the other day.

I remember how happy Alyssa was when she told me this. So was so very thankful to me.

There are millions of girl like Alyssa, who keep trying things, which they are not good at, but don’t attempt anything they know well. Stop doing this! Change the way you think and better try to show him who you are and what you are up to, so that he can like the real you and keep it that way forever.

But with this I don’t mean not to take other essential steps, like getting dressed elegantly, putting make up (but keep it moderate), you style, your attitude and blah, blah……

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